WOMEN’S WORK by National Book Award finalist Megan K. Stack
explores a “Reckoning with Work and Home” by relating events from Stack’s time
living in Beijing and India. During
those periods she and her husband became parents. They employed housekeepers and childcare
workers – “migrants who’d left their own children behind to work in the city,
and ended up in my house.” This extremely personal and well-written text describes
Stack’s feelings about work (she had been a foreign correspondent for the Los Angeles Times) and motherhood,
noting “Job, book, baby: I’d forced myself to choose the one I loved least. It
was a terrible choice because I loved each of them.” WOMEN’S WORK also
confronts the ideas of feminism and privilege as Stack strives to explore the
lives, homes, and families of the women who worked for/with her and says, “Xiao
Li, Mary, and Pooja will forever give me strength and push me forward to what
needs to be done.”
Stack recounts in detail her own
experiences with post-partum depression, concluding at one point, “If a woman
is in an intolerable situation, the answer is not to drug her so that she can
tolerate it. The answer should be – should be – to change the intolerable
situation.” And, she honestly reflects on the role of men, particularly fathers
and husbands (expat or not), who often fail to appreciate the ambivalence - even
guilt - over the unsatisfactory compromises involved with employing domestic
workers. In addition, she writes about Asia: “[China and India] represent our
collective future; they are the stuff of the world’s dreams and nightmares. They
are also places that have made statistical headway towards erasing women.” There
is SO much to explore here and our students could certainly use this book as a
Junior Theme research text or perhaps read portions for Senior Writers Seminar.
I definitely recommend WOMEN’S WORK which received a
starred review from Kirkus.