I started reading two new books and was happily surprised to
feel as though there was a conversation between them. The first, What I Told My Daughter
by Nina Tassler, is a compilation of essays with mothers reflecting on the
messages they would like to or have shared with their daughters. Often, they point to wisdom that their own
mothers imparted. Tassler has compiled essays from a variety of women like singer-song
writer Pat Benatar, novelist Ayelet Waldman, and Supreme Court Justice Ruth
Bader Ginsburg. Although there seems to be a preponderance of celebrity and
entertainment voices, these women leaders seek to enpower their daughters and are sincere in their views on motherhood,
such as when Benatar writes, “when you see that newborn’s face for the first time,
... you are forever changed.... You will never put yourself first again. You will
never stop worrying if your child is happy, healthy, scared or loved.”
In the Preface, Tassler raises some important points,
especially about whether we are putting too much pressure on our girls,
inadvertently encouraging them to turn any feelings of failure inward, against
themselves. An important lesson for all: “you can fail without being a failure.”
The second book, Lab Girl
by Hope Jahren, begins with Jahren describing her close relationship with a
parent (her father) whose science lab she adored as a child and whose life
certainly influenced her own choices. Subsequent
chapters of this memoir shift back and forth between Jahren’s life story (including
working in an often sexist field, battles for funding and efforts to deal with bipolar
disorder) and information about plants, the environment and biology. Lab Girl is a fascinating read.
Jahren is a gifted writer and an award
winning scientist whose description of a seed sprouting its first root is more
than a metaphor for courage.
Lab Girl received an unusually large number of
starred reviews from publications including Booklist, Kirkus, Library
Journal and Publishers Weekly.
We will have a copy in the new library so look for it there!
I see possibilities for both texts across the
curriculum. What I Told My
Daughter could be an interesting mother-daughter read for advisory
groups – it would certainly spark conversation. Lab Girl could
obviously be a choice for independent reading for Science classes, but it has
the possibility to be a Junior Theme choice next year, mostly due to the high
interest amongst girls in trying to find a mentor related to STEM fields; plus,
its style and humor could fit Senior writing classes.